Philosophy.

I’ve learned a lot.
First: I know, stuff happens.
Second: People make mistakes.
Third: You can’t change them.
So change yourself.
Or focus on other things.
Fourth: You can’t change the past either
So overcome your fears
And live your life,
Not afraid of what’s happened.
But, embracing every experience.
Fifth: Medicine doesn’t cure everything.
And when they say they not to expect the worst
It can still happen.
Sixth: You have to love yourself before you can love someone else.
So don’t date someone so you will change.
Change so when you try to you actually do have a happy relationship.
Seventh: You will never know everything.
But that doesn’t mean you stop learning.
Because new information can change your life.
Eighth: don’t live for other people.
Live for yourself.
Ninth: Stop hating.
That just gives them the attention they want.
Tenth: No matter how much you hate it,
Your ‘rents are always going to be right
So stop fighting them :p
It only creates more drama.
Eleventh: God really does love you.
So pray instead of curse.
It’ll get you farther in life
And make you feel better.
Twelve: Even when you think you have it bad
Someone has it worse.
So count your blessings
And stop whining.
It generally ticks people off when you do it too much.


&& more recently i have learned...
Thirteenth: Never say that someone completes you. We have to feel whole even when we are by ourselves, for needing a certain someone is not love, but dependency. Wanting a person to become a part of your live is the best reason for having them. So rather than search for the someone who will complete you, wait for the person that will compliment your completeness.
Fourteenth: Change is to the fearful, threatening, because it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make us stronger.
Fifteenth: Don’t be afraid of death. Be afraid of an un-lived life. You don’t have to live forever to make life worth living.. You just have to live.
Sixteenth: Holding on is not what makes you strong. It takes much more strength to just let go and move on.
Seventeenth: You can’t find the right person, if you never let go of the wrong one.

&& most importantly..

Eighteenth: Always Stay Strong.